Life used to be so confusing...painful and disturbing... Having such sensitivity I could feel so deeply and intimately everyones subconscious differing perspectives...values and belief systems.I felt lost and always seemed to be drowning within them....I couldn't find my truth...MY stability...MY unique beliefs.
Obviously everybody has their own internal reference points...unique to each..but none of them actually define reality in any true sense....how could they?!...
I yearned the deeper Truth of reality...beyond individual...diverse perspectives. I yearned that which is infinitely still and unchanging...I yearned unconditional peace...deep rest...stability.
The Truth...or the only place we can authentically actually meet is here... now..in presence...before thought....before we consult our unique ...individual mental roadmaps for lifes journey...
It’s not rocket science...it’s obvious.
Our unique ‘Thoughts’ can never truly meet...our individual perspectives can never truly meet...in the same way you can never share a night time dream with another. You can talk ‘about’ the dream but it is your dream....nobody can enter in to your night time dream....you can share your dream but only you experience it.
Only you can experience your unique ‘personal’ interpretation of reality…your life story...your minds interpretation of life.
We can share ideas and perspectives ‘about’ reality but no two people will ever view reality in the same way....that is the beauty...infinite diverse perspectives ‘apparently’ converging...
Conflict can occur when we feel misinterpreted or misunderstood....because we then feel invalidated and alone in our translation of reality...like our perspective doesn’t matter or is wrong......that our existence is wrong...the irony is we always misinterpret and misunderstand each other....we can’t not....LOVE is the only place we are exactly the same....love is the only place that we REALLY ‘get’ each other...and it is silence….clarity…beyond words...love is the place we don’t exist as separate entities....so love is obviously the place beyond the need for somebody else to understand or validate ‘my position’…in silence…in love there is no separate position.
In Truth your individual perspective doesn’t need to matter to anybody else...why should it?!...the other person can ‘practice’ compassionate ‘listening’...the other can be educated in how to really ‘be’ present with somebody...so that you can feel validated....and that is beautiful ...kind and healthy....but the freedom you seek will be realised when you no longer need validation from another to be who you are naturally..and to freely think and feel whatever you think and feel...
You are here to walk your unique walk with freedom and strength in your own convictions....You are here to shine beautifully as YOU....to share your perspectives with the world....with all who resonate....this is your contribution to Life...not to ‘fit’ in with an existing paradigm but to forge your own amazing path...
You are the One you have been waiting for...Your love is the love you have been waiting for...your validation...your acceptance...your approval....
You have come to be your own cheerleader!!...
What freedom!!...to never again need the love...validation or approval of another being to be ok with yourself....to love and accept yourself and your unique interpretation of reality... fully...
This is when you can begin to relate in healthy ways with others...to build genuine ...loving connections....each sharing their gifts and attributes with the other...in an environment of respect...of Wholeness...companionship and unconditional love...no longer ‘needing’ each other....but enjoying each others uniqueness.
When we can accept that everybodys world view is entirely unique we can begin to find some kind of healthy common ground....each maybe not agreeing with the others world view but at the very least respecting it...we only try to change another persons perspective (or deny our own) to agree with ours when we lack confidence in our own perspective...if we lack confidence then we need the other to agree with and validate our position...if they don’t we reject or dismiss them (or ourselves) because of our own ‘self’ doubt...
At our essential level we are all exactly the same.
That which looks out of our eyes is ALL exactly the same essence; pure unconditional love...before thought...before experiences...before interpretation...before imagination...before ideas...before the belief that we are separate from each other. The pristine innocent…clear..untarnished view of reality you had as a a baby is still here now…in presence...in silence.
When you rediscover that peace...that unconditioned essence... before thought...concepts...ideas...feelings and sensations.... within yourSelf; our essence...our light...then you have a chance of connecting with that same light/ clarity in others.
Stay here...
Shine your beautiful Light....
All who resonate will find you...
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